my configure:
./configure --with-apxs2=/usr/local/apache2/bin/apxs --with-mysql=/apps/mysql4 --with-xml --with-gettext--with-dom --with-gd --with-imagemagick --with-freetype --with-jpeg-dir=/sw --with-png-dir=/sw --with-zlib-dir=/sw --with-tiff-dir=/sw

obviously i have fink installed too.

configure works and then make fails with these notes right at the end, i think (sorry for the long blurb :):
....
gcc  -Isapi/apache2filter/ -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/sapi/apache2filter/ -DPHP_ATOM_INC -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/include -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/main -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4 -I/usr/local/apache2/include -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/Zend -I/sw/include -I/apps/mysql4/include/mysql -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/ext/xml/expat  -no-cpp-precomp -no-cpp-precomp -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/TSRM  -g -O2  -c /Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/sapi/apache2filter/apache_config.c -o sapi/apache2filter/apache_config.o  && echo > sapi/apache2filter/apache_config.lo
gcc  -Isapi/apache2filter/ -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/sapi/apache2filter/ -DPHP_ATOM_INC -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/include -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/main -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4 -I/usr/local/apache2/include -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/Zend -I/sw/include -I/apps/mysql4/include/mysql -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/ext/xml/expat  -no-cpp-precomp -no-cpp-precomp -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/TSRM  -g -O2  -c /Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/sapi/apache2filter/php_functions.c -o sapi/apache2filter/php_functions.o  && echo > sapi/apache2filter/php_functions.lo
gcc  -Imain/ -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/main/ -DPHP_ATOM_INC -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/include -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/main -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4 -I/usr/local/apache2/include -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/Zend -I/sw/include -I/apps/mysql4/include/mysql -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/ext/xml/expat  -no-cpp-precomp -no-cpp-precomp -I/Users/spiggy/Desktop/php4/TSRM  -g -O2  -c main/internal_functions.c -o main/internal_functions.o  && echo > main/internal_functions.lo
gcc -bundle -bundle_loader /usr/local/apache2/bin/httpd -L/Users/spiggy/Desktop/httpd/srclib/apr-util/usr/local/apache2/lib -L/usr/local/apache2/lib -laprutil-0 /Users/spiggy/Desktop/httpd/srclib/apr-util-lexpat -L/usr/local/apache2/lib -lapr-0 -lm -g -O2   -L/sw/lib -L/apps/mysql4/lib/mysql ext/zlib/zlib.o ext/zlib/zlib_fopen_wrapper.o ext/ctype/ctype.o ext/gd/gd.o ext/gd/gdttf.o ext/gd/libgd/gd.o ext/gd/libgd/gd_gd.o ext/gd/libgd/gd_gd2.o ext/gd/libgd/gd_io.o ext/gd/libgd/gd_io_dp.o ext/gd/libgd/gd_io_file.o ext/gd/libgd/gd_ss.o ext/gd/libgd/gd_io_ss.o ext/gd/libgd/gd_png.o ext/gd/libgd/gd_jpeg.o ext/gd/libgd/gdxpm.o ext/gd/libgd/gdfontt.o ext/gd/libgd/gdfonts.o ext/gd/libgd/gdfontmb.o ext/gd/libgd/gdfontl.o ext/gd/libgd/gdfontg.o ext/gd/libgd/gdtables.o ext/gd/libgd/gdft.o ext/gd/libgd/gdcache.o ext/gd/libgd/gdkanji.o ext/gd/libgd/wbmp.o ext/gd/libgd/gd_wbmp.o ext/gd/libgd/gdhelpers.o ext/gd/libgd/gd_topal.o ext/gd/libgd/gd_gif_in.o ext/mysql/php_mysql.o ext/overload/overload.o ext/pcre/pcrelib/maketables.o ext/pcre/pcrelib/get.o ext/pcre/pcrelib/study.o ext/pcre/pcrelib/pcre.o ext/pcre/php_pcre.o ext/posix/posix.o ext/session/session.o ext/session/mod_files.o ext/session/mod_mm.o ext/session/mod_user.o ext/standard/array.o ext/standard/base64.o ext/standard/basic_functions.o ext/standard/browscap.o ext/standard/crc32.o ext/standard/crypt.o ext/standard/cyr_convert.o ext/standard/datetime.o ext/standard/dir.o ext/standard/dl.o ext/standard/dns.o ext/standard/exec.o ext/standard/file.o ext/standard/filestat.o ext/standard/flock_compat.o ext/standard/formatted_print.o ext/standard/fsock.o ext/standard/head.o ext/standard/html.o ext/standard/image.o ext/standard/info.o ext/standard/iptc.o ext/standard/lcg.o ext/standard/link.o ext/standard/mail.o ext/standard/math.o ext/standard/md5.o ext/standard/metaphone.o ext/standard/microtime.o ext/standard/pack.o ext/standard/pageinfo.o ext/standard/parsedate.o ext/standard/quot_print.o ext/standard/rand.o ext/standard/reg.o ext/standard/soundex.o ext/standard/string.o ext/standard/scanf.o ext/standard/syslog.o ext/standard/type.o ext/standard/uniqid.o ext/standard/url.o ext/standard/url_scanner.o ext/standard/var.o ext/standard/versioning.o ext/standard/assert.o ext/standard/strnatcmp.o ext/standard/levenshtein.o ext/standard/incomplete_class.o ext/standard/url_scanner_ex.o ext/standard/ftp_fopen_wrapper.o ext/standard/http_fopen_wrapper.o ext/standard/php_fopen_wrapper.o ext/standard/credits.o ext/standard/css.o ext/standard/var_unserializer.o ext/standard/ftok.o ext/standard/aggregation.o ext/standard/sha1.o ext/tokenizer/tokenizer.o ext/xml/xml.o ext/xml/expat/xmlparse.o ext/xml/expat/xmlrole.o ext/xml/expat/xmltok.o regex/regcomp.o regex/regexec.o regex/regerror.o regex/regfree.o TSRM/TSRM.o TSRM/tsrm_strtok_r.o TSRM/tsrm_virtual_cwd.o main/main.o main/snprintf.o main/spprintf.o main/php_sprintf.o main/safe_mode.o main/fopen_wrappers.o main/alloca.o main/php_ini.o main/SAPI.o main/rfc1867.o main/php_content_types.o main/strlcpy.o main/strlcat.o main/mergesort.o main/reentrancy.o main/php_variables.o main/php_ticks.o main/streams.o main/network.o main/php_open_temporary_file.o main/php_logos.o main/output.o main/memory_streams.o main/user_streams.o Zend/zend_language_parser.o Zend/zend_language_scanner.o Zend/zend_ini_parser.o Zend/zend_ini_scanner.o Zend/zend_alloc.o Zend/zend_compile.o Zend/zend_constants.o Zend/zend_dynamic_array.o Zend/zend_execute_API.o Zend/zend_highlight.o Zend/zend_llist.o Zend/zend_opcode.o Zend/zend_operators.o Zend/zend_ptr_stack.o Zend/zend_stack.o Zend/zend_variables.o Zend/zend.o Zend/zend_API.o Zend/zend_extensions.o Zend/zend_hash.o Zend/zend_list.o Zend/zend_indent.o Zend/zend_builtin_functions.o Zend/zend_sprintf.o Zend/zend_ini.o Zend/zend_qsort.o Zend/zend_multibyte.o Zend/zend_execute.o sapi/apache2filter/sapi_apache2.o sapi/apache2filter/apache_config.o sapi/apache2filter/php_functions.o main/internal_functions.o  -lmysqlclient -lpng -lz -ljpeg -lz -lm  -o libs/libphp4.bundle && cp libs/libphp4.bundle libs/libphp4.so
gcc: /Users/spiggy/Desktop/httpd/srclib/apr-util-lexpat: No such file or directory
make: *** [libs/libphp4.bundle] Error 1

it seems to be looking for something in the httpd directory which does not make much sense to me. php4 latest (2003-01-30) does the same thing.